I am calling on anyone who is always dieting or giving up foods they love because of food/weight obsession, to hear me out. If you struggle daily with food choices, I am asking you to put aside all of that CRAZINESS for one day and just eat what you want. COME ON, PICK A DAY! On that day, no dieting, no counting calories, no food anxiety and absolutely no fear that you are eating off-limit foods. Just a day to eat what you want when you want to but most of all enjoy it. A day when all foods are on the table. I call this a day of FOOD FREEDOM. Now, before you jump for joy, I am not suggesting that anyone eat hundreds of calories or binge eat all day long. I did not say eat as much as you want, just eat what you want, SENSIBLY. ah, YOU think, I can’t do that, once I start I can’t stop! read on! This will be a day of not only eating what you want but it gives you a chance to begin to practice MINDFUL EATING, making choices YOU can live with. YOU want pizza, have a slice or two, not the whole pie. NO GUILT! YOU want ice cream, have a scoop or cone with sprinkles and enjoy it, you do not have to eat the whole half-gallon. YOU ARE JUST FINE! While I understand that these foods have high sugars and carbs in them, the reality is, these are foods most of us love and WE need to learn how to eat and enjoy them SENSIBLY. If not, these foods eventually work their way back into our lives and the outcome most certainly will be eating until you cannot breathe, then feeling horrible that you did something wrong. Why not learn that you can eat all foods, even the ones considered off limits, OCCASIONALLY. Yes, you can sit and enjoy your choice by not depriving yourself. How about this thought, maybe you want it but can just wait and have it another time, the choice is yours. I BELEIVE that you can do this with time and practice. There is no GUILT, only MINDFUL choices. For most who binge or eat out of emotions, it is time to look closely at change and what you are trying to change. I can guarantee you that most of us have some common deeply-rooted habits that have become ingrained over a long time which require awareness to change. And that’s what MINDFUL eating is about. For those of you who feel you cannot just have one bite for fear of devouring it all, let me remind you that by learning this way of eating you will stop being a slave to food because food slavery is emotional death for anyone. While I am calling this day “Eat what you want day”, the goal is to begin to understand that you can, over time, eat mindfully. Mindful behavior is thinking about your choice before you react. THING FIRST, REACT LATER! This is the new and responsible way to eat especially for your sanity. I can almost guarantee you that when you eat what you want you will focus on what is going in your mouth. When you are dieting, starving, or are restricting yourself the choice is mute. We both know that gets old quickly with the wanting and craving, after that the next step is that you want everything in sight and lots of it. That is what is called on or off eating. What I am trying to get across to some of you that it does not have to be this way. YES, it will take time but, in the end, you will have more control over your eating and your life.
How do I know this? BEEN THERE/DONE THAT. I was a slave to food and a binge eater for many years and this was a very unhealthy lifestyle. Those were the days I thought of nothing else but my next meal. Restrictive eating for weeks and then boom one day I had enough of that leading to my brain as well as emotions going haywire, I would eat until I could not breathe. Once I slowly began to learn that I could eat what I wanted it was like, REALLY. I learned that I could say NO, have it later and then take a sigh of relief, I could slowly breathe again. Today, while I practice being mindful, I still have my days of wanting to eat everything that I smell and see but I know I can make choices and I am responsible for those choices. For some of you who are used to eating on or off this sounds crazy, but I can be confident in telling you to give yourself one day of freedom. For me, it works almost every time because I think about it MINDFULLY. I began to eat this way after many years of dieting, feeling depressed, losing/gaining weight constantly and feeling like I could never feel good about myself. Most of you know what I mean by this, letting food control our every move almost daily. While I was on those crazy diets, (I have been on all of them) I would stay on program but when I went off, I would eat everything in sight. Today I can have ice cream any time I want it. Our minds are so powerful once we decide to start changing our thoughts. After many years of working on this way of living, the battles are few and that is a GREAT place to be.
The research shows us that MINDFUL eating is the new way to eat. YOU will be making choices that you can think about and live with and not just eat out of emotions setting yourself up for a binge leading to feeling like a failure and just feeling horrible. I know so many women who have told me that once they allowed themselves to just eat, they lost weight because they could have any foods any time and where not restricted to some crazy food program making themselves crazy. So, while you may think it is not that simple, it really is, decide and stick to it, the choice is YOURS!!!! Let me know how you did once you get through one day! Remember, YOU GOT THIS!